rozi says everyone has a mindy. i think there's something to be said for that. i wonder if it's true that everyone has a deeg too. i bet it is. and what happens when your deeg and your mindy is the same person? is that better than them being two different people? or does it suck twice as much?

so i have a hypothetical situation for you. suppose you have a friend. not just any friend, but one of your best ones. somebody who makes your top ten. suppose that person is engaged to be married. married to a person who is probably not the right person. not that she is bad, she's great, but probably just not the right person for your friend. you talk to your friend, try to ask him questions to get him thinking about whether or not this girl is really the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with, and through the course of time and questioning you realize that the problem is he's in love with you (which he hints at but doesn't explicitly say) and the only way he will call the engagement off and avoid making a BIG mistake is if you tell him you love him and want to be with him. no pressure. the fiancee is nice but you're his deeg. and you've never really been romantically interested in him, not because it's never crossed your mind but more just because there was never an opportunity to be. so the question is this: if it was within your grasp to stop this wedding, but the only way you could do it would be with the intention of starting a new relationship, would you do it? i mean ethically of course it wouldn't be wise, since you would probably be lying about the depths of your feelings for the guy, but i'm just curious to hear from you. are there any circumstances under which you would do such a thing to keep one of your best friends from marrying the wrong person? tell me what you think.